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If you’re going to read it, keep in mind that is way more important than what you do.

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Turn on the TV and it’s not about kittens being saved from trees, but drive-by shootings.

That doesn’t mean there aren’t plenty of kittens saved from trees.

But deeper than that, what you’re hoping is for me to confirm that I see things the way you want them to be – “he loves me, he loves me not, he loves me, etc.” You ever play those games? It’s a sense that you don’t really believe that it could be true, but you really want it to be.

A lot of the time, women fall into the trap of playing “emotional detective”: They dig into their memories and observations and go through EVERY insignificant detail to try and uncover some “hidden message” or “secret code” that the guy is sending.

If you choose to wait for lightning to strike until you go on another date with the “right” guy, you might be waiting a long, long time. Listen, you might think I’m nuts to keep on preaching positivity. All I know is that it’s freakin’ HARD to meet someone.

We have our small lives: our circle of married friends, our work buddies, a few single people, and that’s it.To answer your question from the information you’ve given me… From what you told me, my read on what you’re trying to figure out is one of three scenarios: a) you want to know that he likes you because knowing someone likes you feels good, b) he is indifferent to you (in the romantic sense), but you and you’re seeing what you want to see, c) you don’t know whether or not he likes you, but you’d be open to starting something with him.I’m going to go with the assumption that you like him, mainly because if you didn’t, you wouldn’t have asked.I just urge people to find some healthier perspective on the whole thing.A private client told me just this weekend that she’s quitting online dating after three bad dates in a row.The reality is that playing emotional detective usually only succeeds at doing one thing: Making the girl go absolutely crazy.

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